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number one song the day you were born

Nov. 30th, 2009 | 04:02 pm

look up the link and find out what the number one song is on the day you were born.

http://www.joshhosler.biz/NumberOneinhistory/SelectMonth.htm

go on. let me know. Mine is Fire by Ohio Players, whoever that is...

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Have a Holiday and Help Others to at the same time!

Nov. 18th, 2009 | 01:01 pm

Community Living Association Inc is an organization working with people with intellectual disability and young people at risk. CLA is registered charity and not for profit association based in Nundah Brisbane.

The Cove Noosa have generously offered Community Living 4 Nights accommodation for up to four people in a two bedroom apartment at Hastings Street Noosa ! We have decided to e-bay auction this accommodation to raise money. All monies from the auction will go to The CLA Adventure Holiday which helps the young people we assist go on holidays of their own.

Up for Auction is four nights accommodation in one two bedroom unit which can house up to four people. The accommodation can be booked anytime outside of school holidays. Details of the Cove and CLA can be found below, the e-bay bidding site address is: http://cgi.ebay.com.au/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=120494244895

The Coves Web Address is:
http://www.thecovenoosa.com.au/resort.html

CLA’s Web Address is:
www.communityliving.org.au

Details on the Cove Are Below:
The Cove Noosa Resort offers stylish luxury Noosa accommodation located directly across from Little Cove Beach and only a 4 minutes "board walk" to Hastings Street in Noosa, one of Australia's most beautiful and most popular holiday accommodation destinations. Situated in the most sophisticated and beautiful part of Noosa with its exclusive homes and apartments, The Cove Noosa at Little Cove enjoys an extraordinary position 30 metres from the ocean at famous Little Cove Beach.

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but why?

Nov. 17th, 2009 | 11:24 am

since several in my inner and other circles have taken to making babies, and probably because i am at "that age" and am in a nice relationship with a fella who definitely wants to have kids, I have, of late, been reading a few (feminist) parenting blogs such as the ones below and the links therein.

http://bluemilk.wordpress.com/
http://sewliberated.typepad.com/sew_liberated/
http://www.womanist-musings.com/

this article sums up my current position well. why have kids, when it is such work? i sit with the contributer who always sees tired, financially stressed, grumpy parents and asks- why do it? i grew up in a household of 6 kids and we had a good childhood but many of my memories is of mum and dad working, all the time. mum is a super woman who did pretty much all of the house and a lot of the child work, as well as a part time job running the family business. most of my memories of her from when i was a kid was her being a bit frazzled or cooking, driving us to and from our many activities (also our personal time/ counselling), shopping, laundry, cleaning up, or supervising homework. dad worked very long hours, but always was home for dinner and putting up to bed, and then went back to work for a few hours. mum, by the way, says that routine is what got her through the days.

i also think that we set parents up to have a difficult time in nuclear families. until the industrial revolution, parents lived in the same place as the rest of their family. in some traditional cultures like our Aborigional Australians, child rearing was carried out by aunties and grandmothers as well as parents. i work with several parents who don't have family nearby and it is tricky when kids get sick for example. in the public service we are better equipt than most with flexible working hours, but still is hard.

and then there is the gender distribution of childrearing labour... i did a whole subject on that at uni...

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(no subject)

Nov. 9th, 2009 | 01:10 pm

probably one of the more ridiculous things i have been emailed recently.  below are some tips if someone gets into your car and holds a gun to your head.  seriosly.  seriously the US is so f*ckd up.  they seem oblivious to the direct relationship between social inequality and crime.  so instead of wearing a few more taxes, nationalising health care (somehow national education, however underfunded, isn't seen as commie), and sorting out the dreadful inequality between classes, the white middle classes accept that crime and violence are a part of life.   i particularly hate these kids of warnings because they act to make the world appear unsafe and fearful for women, even though men statistically are at vastly more risk of stranger vioence than women.  

on an aside, i use stoopid internet explorer at work as i am not permitted to download mozilla.  most pages i look at have these annoying ads for tips for a flat belly.  i wish they would go away.  i miss my adblocker plus.

crucial tips to avoid abductions )

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thrill the world 2009

Oct. 26th, 2009 | 11:39 am

some of my friends organised and took part in the zombie thriller dance in Brisbane yesterday as part of the third annual worldwide simultaneous rendition of the dance.  here are some photos and newstory and footage on youtube, in case you were interested in having a look.  it's not really my thing, i don't get the fascination with zombies, or michael jackson either.  i suspect that a lot of the general public are somewhat relieved that he is dead because they can ignore his dodgy times and celebrate him in the 70's and 80's

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one year on

Oct. 20th, 2009 | 01:15 pm

life goes on... i enjoyed carmina's wedding tremendously on the weekend, so relaxed and authentic.  everyone looked gorgeous, particularly the bride, who wore dogstar.   twas lovely to see the old uni kids too, including sam ailwood and her excellent partner who live in hong kong, and moo who currently resides in singapore. 

i feel busy working fulltime, which makes anyone feel busy and tired.  also working hard on two acts for island vibe at straddie... we head over there on wednesday next week so argh!  my aerial act i have performed before i just need to build up stamina and stomach for spinning (it's longish) but my acro dance with adam has been significantly reworked and still requires many many more hours of rehearsal.  it's very fun of course.   we have a house on straddie for the week so sure am looking forward to chilling the hell out too.

on sunday me and james enjoyed our one year anniversary, celebrated in the end by not doing much.  his work takes a lot out of him, and so does mine and training, so we were quite flat but had a nice day.  in the end we cooked a roast chook and him mum and sister came over which was fun.  so kudos to james, he has done well so far putting up with me.  my friend linda said (very nicely) that i am not a beige and uninteresting person :)  but i think over the next year i can work on being a bit less intense all the same!!!  james is a very cruisy kinda fella but still... i realise i need to let some things go. 

i was up at rockhampton and woorabinda- an aboriginal communty 2 hours west of rocky- last week for work.  i am reviewing a program at woorabinda that we fund.  there are significant challenges in the community but the program seems to be doing well getting young people who were almost certainly bound for youth justice back into school and other activities.  i met some really terrific people who looked after me really well.  i also had some nights to myself so did my tax finally, and watched a hell of a lot of 30 rock which i downloaded from a friend of mine.  now i'm not a tv watcher but i'm hooked!  i've almost finished watching the second season, which is saying something since i only finished downloading the first season a couple of weeks ago.  our whole house is addicted, even denise the german- respect, the dialogue is super fast!

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insensitive

Oct. 7th, 2009 | 09:15 am

i don't think some people realise how insensitive it is to ask a woman if she is pregnant.  you can ask, "so are you guys planning on making another bub anytime soon?" or "any thoughts about for giving up a full night's sleep for a few years" or anything like that.

to ask a woman if she is pregnant (except if she clearly looks like she has a basketball stuffed up her shirt) implies that you think she is has put on weight or hasn't lost weight from a pregnancy.    i don't think that there is no other way to read this question.   unless she is actually is pregnant...  but hey, it would probably come up in conversation anyway, if she wanted you to know.  she might be pregnant but not outside the 12 week miscarriage risk period so what, you are going to make her lie to you? 

so  in my opion, people shouldn't just charge in asking if women are pregnant.   it can be rude and offensive and hurts women's self esteem.

<end rant>

two women i work with have been asked if the were pregnant lately, and it really hurt their feelings.  I just thought the person who asked them this was insenstive and rude.

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from my work friend steve

Oct. 5th, 2009 | 05:04 pm


Hi all

 A few people have asked me about how/what they can do in relation to supporting the recovery efforts in Samoa. This email is by no means a request for your support – just information for you or others that you know that may want to know more about how they can support.

 As many of you know I am heading over to Samoa for a couple of weeks. My VERY basic plan is to assist wherever I can. My sister lives in Samoa (works for UNICEF and UNFPA) and her team is part of the United Nations coordinated response to this event. As well as offering support to my family in Samoa my efforts wider than this will be guided by the coordinated response – my intention is to just plug in wherever I fit.

 As is the case with many recovery efforts there can be an inundation of support offered in the early stages which can tend to decline over time. From conversations with my sister there is a lot of Aid coming in to Samoa which can run the risk of being chaotic without high levels of coordination. It seems that things are currently going well and that they are getting on with the job of assisting those who need it. So on to the how…

 I can confirm that Samoa Red Cross is highly organised and responded almost immediately after the tsunami in offering practical and other supports. Monetary donations to the Red Cross will absolutely make a difference on the ground in Samoa.

 Pacific (Virgin) Blue in association with Polynesian Blue are encouraging anyone who would like to donate clothing, blankets, or tinned food etc to drop these donations off at Pacific Blue check-in counters at airports in New Zealand and Australia. The donations will be freighted to Samoa by Polynesian Blue for distribution by government and/or aid agencies.

 In the medium to long term – I will be in a better position to comment on what else can be done or have a better sense of priority as to what specific efforts might be needed when I return. I would be happy to discuss this further with any of you when I get back.

 There are plenty of ways for people to be useful from here. My wife and our kids are organising some simple fundraising through our local school, clothing/other collections to be dropped at the airport etc.

 Otherwise – all I would say is to try not to let your concern for this event to wane over time. Remember Samoa AND our South East Asian neighbours as time goes on, because they will need ongoing support over many months if not years.

 Thanks again everyone for your well wishes.

 Regards,  Steve

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mental note: do not get raped by a celebrity

Oct. 1st, 2009 | 11:53 am

reading about the latest roman polanki case makes me realise that celebrities are more or less above the law, and that it would be best to avoid being raped or murdered by one. 

the incidence of whoopi goldberg supporting a child rapist makes sense to me in that she is a celebrity, and therefore weilds great power which she would probably be keen to defend, and this kinda overrides the fact that she is a woman and african american.  in the way that margeret thatcher was rich, white, and a conservative with great power, which sorta cancels out the fact that she was a woman.

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i heart vegas

Sep. 30th, 2009 | 12:06 pm

i just walked back to work from some training at the valley, and darnit, the sky was blue and i was walking down eagle st and it was just superb.  i love weekly forcasts that read fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, fine.  where else gets that?  i love feeling safe (in most areas, not the mall and valley late on saturday nights).

i love my new house.  it's super easy.  it's easy to keep clean and my food connect pick up is on the next block.  i love living with maggie, it's a bladder busting* christmas morning every time i get home, she leaps with joy as if she can't contain it-  OH OH OH JANETTE'S HOME!!!!!   AAAAAGGGGH!!!  JANETTE'S HOME!!!!  in the morning when james' alarm goes off at 5am this is when she jumps on our bed for a snuggle.   i usally catch a few more zzzz's after he leaves, with maggie all floppy somewhere cuddled into me.    i like living with james, it's also very easy and fun.  work takes up a lot of our time and mental energy, but at least we see each other and a few nights a week we stay in and play.  i don't remember ever wanting to be home, but now i love my nights when i don't have anything on.  previously i would have done something about the fact that i didn't have any plans!   

i'm maybe 500m to the bikepath and from there i don't stop til the lights just before my buidling, and it's a 30 minute trip...  ahh life is good

*maggie is a terribly well behaved dog, she clearly wouldn't really pee

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Gloomy but hopeful

Sep. 24th, 2009 | 01:37 pm

i recieved news this morning that the partner of a very old friend of mine almost certainly has testicular cancer.  at 29.  WT*goddam*F?  good news is that the interventions are very frequently successful.  but FF sake.  we'll all no doubt be cheered when the baby warthog has happily arrived on or before 2 oct

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An Australian first

Sep. 18th, 2009 | 02:02 pm

A Young Torres Strait Island  boy sings "I still call Australia Home" in traditional language as part of an international campaign for QANTAS.   Some media sources have incorrectly defined it an Aboriginal language, sung by an Aboriginal boy. The words could be either Kala Kawai Ya or Kala Lagau Ya, two closely related dialects of the island region.

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this straighty can write letters

Sep. 11th, 2009 | 09:47 am

http://bluemilk.wordpress.com/2009/09/09/straighties-can-so-write-letters/

and i really will make the effort after finally getting off my ass and writing to MPs about the need to remove abortion from the criminal code.  i was sent this through friends.  the link above has other easy suggestions

Hi All

As many of you know I have a beautiful 10 month old daughter Mya. Unfortunately under current Queensland law I am not legally recognised as one of her parents. Besides being insulting this is really problemtatic for our family.

Here are a few examples:
* I can't make medical decisions for Mya, legally I can't take her to see a doctor without Tracy being present
* I don't automatically have custody of Mya if something happened to Tracy
* If Mya were school age I wouldn't be allowed to volunteer in her school becuase I am not family (but Tracy's parents and sister could automatically do this)
* I'm not mentioned on the birth certificate (straight couples who use donor sperm like we did are not treated this way - the father who has no biological connection to the child (just like me) is still listed as the father)
* I'm not allowed to adopt Mya because we are gay
* I'm not legally recognised as her next of kin
* My entire extended family, in particular my parents, are also not recognised legally as Mya's family

However there is an opportunity to change all of this and you can help! The Qld government released 2 position papers that would allow me to be legally recognised as one of Mya's parents. The deadline to responsd is Sept 18th. If there isn't a majority yes vote it may be another 5-10 years before there is a chance to vote on this again and I can't wait that long!! At the moment there isn't a majority yes vote so we need to act.

Things to do to help:
1)Could you please cut and past the form letter below, add your name (address too if you can, especially qld people) and email it to the address below. Feel free to chop and change as you wish and personalise or simply add your name. We need our responses to out number the far christian right who will write against this.
2) Join the cause Same sex headed families on facebook and invite all your freinds to do the same
3) Send this email to everyone you know and ask them to send a letter
4) Write to your local MP who will vote on this later in the year and ask them to vote yes.

Thanks for your support. The form letter is below.

Add your name and address


Director
Strategic Policy
Department of Justice and Attorney-General
GPO Box 149
Brisbane Qld 4001

To the Director, Strategic Policy,

I am writing in relation to the release of the Queensland Government’s position papers titled, Queensland Government model for the decriminalisation of altruistic surrogacy and transfer of legal parentage and Review of the legal status of children being cared for by same-sex parents, dated August 2009.

I agree with the reforms proposed in these papers and believe they will have a significant, positive impact on many Queensland families without detracting from the existing rights of other families.

It is important that the children of same-sex parented families have the same rights and social supports as every other child in Queensland. I want to live in a state where all children and all families are treated equally in the eyes of the law.

Prospective parents seeking to use altruistic surrogacy, regardless of whether the couple is heterosexual or same sex, will engage in informed, consenting activity with a surrogate. All parties in these arrangements deserve the protection of the Queensland law just as it is currently provided in most states and territories in Australia.

The proposed parenting presumption reform to include the birth mother’s same sex partner on the birth certificate so she can be recognised as a parent will simply extend the current recognition afforded to heterosexual couples using donor sperm for the conception of their children. It will provide important recognition and protection needed by same sex couples and their children. This reform will provide for consistency with Federal laws where same sex couples with children are now recognised as families.

I note that many states have introduced parenting presumption provisions relating only to when a medically supervised fertilisation procedure is used. I think this is an unfortunate legal emphasis on the medical model when, for at least a generation, lesbian couples and their male friends have often reached agreements to conceive children without the reliance on high levels of (expensive) medical intervention. Accordingly, I believe that the proposed reforms should focus on the relationship between the partners and to their child rather than the method of conception. I also believe that the law should be retrospective to enable partners that can demonstrate intention to co-parent at the time of a child’s birth to amend their child’s birth certificate for the inclusion of the non-biological parent.

All families deserve these rights irrespective of their family arrangement. I urge the Queensland Government to implement these changes as soon as possible.

Yours sincerely


Please email to

legalpolicysubmission@justice.qld.gov.au

Then send this to everyone you know in regular email too please.

Many thanks in advance

Marion, Tracy and Mya

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Survey of community attitudes

Sep. 11th, 2009 | 09:12 am

You are invited to participate in Australia’s largest ever survey of community attitudes about children 

National Child Protection Week 2009 marks the start of a two month campaign to engage the whole of the Australian community in the prevention of child abuse and neglect. NAPCAN and its partners are conducting the largest ever survey of community attitudes. This survey has been designed with the assistance of leading researchers from across the country to gather information which will help in the planning of effective strategies to prevent child abuse and neglect. You can play a part in this. 

Have your say at: www.preventingchildabuse.com.au and complete the short online survey. 

As part of the National Framework for Protecting Australia’s Children, NAPCAN has been funded to conduct the largest ever survey of community attitudes towards children.  

Information from NAPCAN about how you can participate is below. The survey takes about 7 minutes to complete.

Please distribute through your networks, colleagues, friends and family. 

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pink triathalon

Aug. 31st, 2009 | 10:24 am

some work friends are are doing Pink Triathlon in 3 weeks time. The money raised goes towards cancer research and support services so is a great cause.   If you can spare a few dollars, please donate at http://www.everydayhero.com.au/pink_ladies_1


 

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Make your mark and help Lifeline save lives...

Aug. 18th, 2009 | 12:24 pm

Suicide among Indigenous Australians is up to 40% higher than in the general Australian population.  It's also believed this figure is under reported. You can show your support for Indigenous wellbeing and suicide prevention by visiting www.lifeline.org.au/makeyourmark and creating a personalised hand print. For every hand print created Rugby League’s One Community will donate $1 to Lifeline*.

 So make your mark and help raise funds to provide services and resources to help create suicide safer Indigenous communities. t's an easy, quick and fun way to get involved and show you care about this important cause. 

* Up to $15,000 for hands created online. This donation will go directly towards programs that support suicide safer Indigenous communities.

  www.lifeline.org.au/makeyourmark

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QLD abortion laws

Aug. 17th, 2009 | 03:34 pm

The state I live in still criminalises abortion, although in practice there have not been convictions for decades under the century old legislation.  until now.

what concerns me is not that anna bligh (former women's officer from our very own UQ student union) is not supporting this more, but that there are not enough ministers to support changes to the legislation.  huh??!!
 

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A SENIOR MOMENT

Aug. 17th, 2009 | 09:59 am

An elderly lady wrote this letter to her bank. The bank manager thought it amusing enough to have it published in The Times and this newspaper thanks him most sincerely.

 Dear Sir,

 I am writing to thank you for bouncing my cheque with which I endeavoured to pay my plumber last month. By my calculations, three nanoseconds must have elapsed between his presenting the cheque and the arrival in my account of the funds needed to honour it. I refer, of course, to the automatic monthly deposit of my Pension, an arrangement which, I admit, has been in place for only eight years. You are to be commended for seizing that brief window of opportunity, and also for debiting my account £30 by way of penalty for the inconvenience caused to your bank.

My thankfulness springs from the manner in which this incident has caused me to rethink my errant financial ways.

I noticed that whereas I personally attend to your telephone calls and letters, when I try to contact you, I am confronted by the impersonal, overcharging, re-recorded, faceless entity which your bank has become.

From now on, I, like you, choose only to deal with a flesh-and-blood person. My mortgage and loan payments will therefore and hereafter no longer be automatic, but will arrive at your bank by cheque, addressed personally and confidentially to an employee at your bank whom you must nominate.

Be aware that it is an offence under the Postal Act for any other person to open such an envelope.

Please find attached an Application Contact Status which I require your chosen employee to complete. I am sorry it runs to eight pages, but in order that I know as much about him or her as your bank knows about me, there is no alternative. Please note that all copies of his or her medical history must be countersigned by a Solicitor, and the mandatory details of his/her financial situation (income, debts, assets and liabilities) must be accompanied by documented proof.

In due course, I will issue your employee with a PIN number which he/she must quote in dealings with me. I regret that it cannot be shorter than 28 digits but, again, I have modelled it on the number of button presses required of me to access my account balance on your phone bank service.

As they say, imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.

Let me level the playing field even further. When you call me, press buttons as follows:

1-- To make an appointment to see me.
2-- To query a missing payment.
3-- To transfer the call to my living room in case I am there.
4-- To transfer the call to my bedroom in case I am sleeping.
5-- To transfer the call to my toilet in case I am attending to nature.
6-- To transfer the call to my mobile phone if I am not at home.
7-- To leave a message on my computer (a password to access my computer is required. A password will be communicated to you at a later date to the Authorized Contact.)
8-- To return to the main menu and to listen again to options 1 through 8
9-- To make a general complaint or inquiry, the contact will then be put on hold, pending the attention of my automated answering service. While this may, on occasion, involve a lengthy wait, uplifting music will play for the duration of the call.

Regrettably, but again following your example, I must also levy an establishment fee to cover the setting up of this new arrangement.

May I wish you a happy, if ever so slightly less prosperous, New Year,
Your Humble Client

Addendum from The Editor:  This letter was written by a lady who is 98 years old.

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chatting with the dark side

Jul. 30th, 2009 | 11:30 am

-----Original Message-----
From: Lindsay, Peter (MP) [mailto:Peter.Lindsay.MP@aph.gov.au]
Sent: Thursday, 30 July 2009 11:05 AM
To: Janette Hull
Subject: RE: Feedback from your APH Web Page

 Janette

 Thanks for your email. My reported comments did not mention the very sad Doomadgee incident and there was no blame attached to the parents.

 However, I have been to Doomadgee and I have visited the hospital and met the staff there. It is a very good and professional facility whose staff include local people. The answer to the death of a child is not to suggest the introduction of a black card but rather to get to the bottom of why the death occurred in the first place and address that issue.

 Calling for a black card just invites others to call for a white card where people from remote communities would be required to carry such a card if they came into a white community. Clearly stupid and racist and that's what I said in the paper.

 I want to see the lot of aboriginal people improved but I sadly think the way things are going it will never happen. The people on Palm will live the same way in a hundred years as they do now and that is wrong. I have lots of ideas but, at the end of the day, there needs to be leadership in indigenous communities, the will to follow that leadership, respect for law, order and governance and land ownership.

 OK I'll get of the soap box now.

 Regards

Peter

This was my response...

Thanks for your prompt reply,

 I disagree about the need for a white card.  Aboriginal people have been provided with unavoidable, abrupt and often violent and disempowering lessons about the dominant white culture since the creation of the colony.  Imposing our culture upon Aboriginal people does not succeed in creating thriving communities; it just creates more disempowerment and disadvantage.   

 All levels of government need to learn how work with Aboriginal communities to achieve joint goals.   The Family Responsibilities Commission is one of the rare Indigenous policies that actually works because the communities themselves created the initiative.  Government has to stop thinking it knows best about what to do to assist Indigenous people to live with dignity and wellbeing and trust that they know what to do if only we would let them, and learn how to listen.

 I agree that it we need to know how a child that was presented to such a professional medical facility did not receive health care at a level that all Australians would expect.

 Kind Regards

Janette Hull

 

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what a wanker

Jul. 30th, 2009 | 10:25 am


http://www.townsvillebulletin.com.au/article/2009/07/30/67435_news.html

i actually did write a letter (actually it was online) for once! 

to Herbert MP Peter Lindsay

I am writing in response to an article on page 9 in the Townsville Bulletin, 30 July 2009.

I am offended that your words essentially blame the parents in Doomadgee of the death of their four year old daughter, despite the fact that they continually presented the girl to a hospital and were sent away.

This story about the little girl broke my heart on the weekend. I would expect all Australians to receive equality in health care and am devastated that this is not the case. If that was my niece or a child of a friend, I would be horrified if the Australian medical and health system did not do everything within its power to keep the child alive. If this was your daughter, would you want her to be discharged from hospital when she was clearly unwell?

With respect, I think that you would benefit from training in cultural understanding. The words that were quoted in the newspaper article demonstrate a lack of understanding and respect for Aboriginal culture.

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